Video Summary
India taught Fay that community, kindness and connection matter more than competition and wealth.
She lives in a jungle village in Goa where nature (leopards, monkeys) coexists with daily life and the local community provides strong security.
Fay finds rural Goa very safe—neighbors watch out for one another and doors often remain unlocked during the day.
Visas and residency are complicated: children born in India can still lack local rights and depend on visas, creating uncertainty for expat families.
Education costs vary widely: international schools are expensive while local schools can be nearly free and welcome foreign students with paperwork.
According to Fay's experience, her village in Goa feels very safe—neighbors watch out for each other, doors are often left unlocked during the day, and serious crime is rare. However, residents must also manage wildlife risks (leopards, monkeys) and occasional thefts.
Yes—foreign children can enroll in local schools though some paperwork is needed. Schooling costs contrast sharply: international schools can cost around 40,000 INR/month, while local schools may be nearly free or charge very low fees.
Fay explains that visas are a major headache: children born in India to foreigners may still require visas and lack local rights. Frequent policy changes make long‑term planning uncertain for expat families.
Fay says India taught her that competition and wealth matter far less than community, compassion and connection—values reinforced by everyday kindness and support she experienced there.
Her children have a strong Goan/Indian influence—speaking Konkani and Hindi with Goan accents—resulting in a blended identity that combines local compassion and gentleness with elements of their British heritage.
"The biggest lesson the country taught me is that in the end, none of that competition and wealth matters."
"They don't understand the beauty of their souls."
"I love how it's integrated into nature. It is part of the local village."
"It's so safe… I can leave the doors open."
"They're so compassionate with people and... it's a lot gentler here."
"The visas are the bane of our lives."
"There's a big difference between the school fees we were paying at the international school and then at the local school."
The speaker highlights the stark contrast in educational costs between international schools and local schools in India. Attendance at an international school can cost around 40,000 INR per month, equivalent to approximately 400 UK pounds.
In contrast, local education is significantly more affordable, with the speaker's younger child attending a local school almost for free and the older child paying around 100 pounds per year.
Despite initial concerns, foreign children are welcome in local schools, although some paperwork is required to enroll.
"I love the UK, but it has really changed."
Reflecting on the UK, the speaker expresses affection for the country while acknowledging its challenges and transformations over the years.
They note that during their lifetime, particularly in the 1980s, life in the UK was much better economically, allowing for a comfortable lifestyle.
Currently, the speaker emphasizes issues such as a housing crisis and the struggles faced by working-class individuals, including nurses and teachers, who cannot afford basic necessities.
The speaker is frustrated with the government’s failure to support its citizens adequately, mentioning that the older generations are starting to see the true nature of the situation.
"The principles came from yoga because I was certainly not living like that pre-studies."
The speaker shares personal growth and life principles developed through yoga practice.
Emphasizing respect and kindness toward others, they express a desire to create a calmer environment, especially within their family.
They recognize that the journey of self-improvement is ongoing and note that they have shifted their perspective on yoga; rather than a serious affair, it should include joy and celebration of life.
The speaker aims to enjoy every moment and foster community harmony, hoping to inspire others to seek happiness and healthier lifestyles as influenced by their teachings in India.
"The meaning of life is to be of service to others."
The speaker elaborates on their beliefs about life being a journey of reincarnation, where each existence brings individuals closer to their true selves or universal love energy.
They argue that life is inherently challenging, and individuals should focus on serving others, which aligns with yogic teachings.
By striving to help others and embodying service, the speaker believes they fulfill their purpose in life, continuing the cycle of learning and growth.
